The Less You Own, The Less That Owns You

I haven’t always been a minimalist, nor have I always been interested in minimalist living. I used to purchase crazy amounts of clothing, random items for my home, wasn’t interested in becoming a minimalist, and so on. I hoarded lots of items, hoping that one day I would find a use for them. I often…

Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

Last Updated: April 28, 2025

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I haven’t always been a minimalist, nor have I always been interested in minimalist living. I used to purchase crazy amounts of clothing, random items for my home, wasn’t interested in becoming a minimalist, and so on.

I hoarded lots of items, hoping that one day I would find a use for them. I often thought that I needed things, so I would purchase crazy amounts of them even though I should have put my money to better use.

Then, around two years ago, I realized that I had too much stuff and that I had an unhealthy relationship with material things.

Over the past two years, I have donated or given away the majority of my belongings. I now pretty much only have the things I need to get me through the day or week ahead. There is no extra, and before I purchase anything, I always think about what use I’ll get out of it.

After all, I travel full-time and there’s only so much I can carry. Plus, getting rid of the majority of my belongings has been hard, stressful, and tiring, and I definitely don’t want to experience that ever again!

I know that not everyone wants to be a minimalist. And, I’m not pushing it on anyone. I know that buying stuff isn’t all bad, and there are many material things that make life easier and better.

Instead, I want to introduce people to the idea of minimalist living, especially since the average person has lots of extra stuff in their lives that they don’t need. This can lead to debt, buying things just to impress others, wasting time, and so on.

Plus, being a minimalist has changed my life for the better, and I believe that it can help others as well.

I used to spend a lot of time thinking the things I bought and spending all of my money on new things, but I am far from that now.

It’s easy to get lost in the idea of spending money on things to fill your life, and the average home size has changed to make it only easier to feel like you have to buy more than you need. Consider this, the average home size in 1950 was less than 1,000 square feet. Fast forward to 2013, the average home size has increased to nearly 2,600 square feet, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

Clearly, we used to make due with less, and there are still many reasons for minimalist living:

  • Minimalist living can help you save more money. Minimalist living most likely means that you’ll be buying less stuff. Instead, you’ll only buy what you want and what you truly need.
  • Minimalist living means less clutter. Clutter can take over a person’s life. You may feel stressed out, tired, like your things are taking over your life, and more.
  • Minimalist living can give you more time. By living with less stuff, you can spend less time on cleaning, maintenance, and repairs. The more things you have, the more things that you’ll need to clean, maintain, and repair. Just think about what you could do with all of that extra time!

Here is how minimalist living has changed my life:

Clothing doesn’t define me.

By being a minimalist, I’ve definitely realized that I don’t need much in order to be happy. Before, I thought that I needed all the clothing in the world in order to be happy, but now I know that I really don’t need much.

In fact, I hardly ever purchase clothing, and I’ve been wearing nearly the same things for several years.

For me, it’s all about buying things that are more “classic,” won’t go out of style, things that I actually like instead of what’s trendy for that month, and so on.

It feels great when you realize that you don’t need all of that extra stuff in your life.

Instead, purchase what you want and need, rather than thinking about keeping up with others all the time or thinking that emotional spending is something that will help you.

Minimalist living gives me more time.

Minimalist living allows me to have more time to spend on other things.

Just think about it: The more things you have, then the more time you have to spend on using it, maintaining it, repairing it, cleaning it, and so on.

I would much rather live with less than think about all of the things that I own that need work done to them!

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With minimalist living, I’ve realized that I don’t need much.

Before I was a minimalist, I kept a lot of things because I thought I needed them for the future. On a regular basis, I probably only used around 25% of the things I had in my house.

In reality, it was probably even less than the 25% figure that I just said above.

I know I’m not alone, and many people keep items because they think they might need them in the future. You know the feeling– you buy something, don’t use it right away, and years later you find it but just can’t throw it away in case there is some circumstance where you need that exact item.

If this is you, then you should put a timeline of no more than one year on the item. If you don’t use it in that timeframe, then there’s a big chance that you’ll never need it or will even miss it that much.

Instead of buying items that you rarely use, you may want to think about renting or borrowing them from someone else.

When I think about how much stuff we gave away, I honestly can’t even remember half of the things. I realize now how little we really needed, and those things definitely did not make me happy if I can’t even remember them!

I save more money by living with less stuff.

Now that we live with less stuff, we are able to save a great deal of money. Instead of thinking that we need everything that exists, we are now much more realistic about our needs and realize that there’s a lot of clutter in the stores that no one really needs at all.

Plus, now that I realize how much money I’ve wasted over the years, I am able to say “no” at the store when debating about whether or not I should purchase a certain item, especially one that might create clutter.

I can also walk into a store and only buy exactly what I need, even if that store is Target!

I have so much more control over my spending and that has saved me a lot of money.

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I understand now that I don’t need things to make me happy.

Having more things doesn’t make you a happier person. Things don’t make you a better person, they don’t make you more successful than others, or anything else.

In fact, in many circumstances it’s far from that.

I know this because I have less stuff than I have ever had, and I am happier than ever.

Plus, when was the last time you heard someone say “I’m so glad I bought all those pairs of pants 35 years ago!” or “I’m so glad I had all of those things decades ago!”

You should only own something if you truly want or need it. Who cares about what everyone else has!

A minimalist house allows me to travel.

Unless I maintain my minimalist lifestyle and house (well, RV), then I wouldn’t be able to travel full-time. It would be quite hard and not nearly as enjoyable if I had a bunch of things holding me back.

I really, really love and enjoy being able to travel full-time, and it is one of the best benefits of living minimally.

Do you think minimalist living could change your life? Why or why not?


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  1. Lindsey Mozgai

    We’ve been trying to adopt a minimalist lifestyle for almost an entire year. One of our big goals this year is to go room by room and declutter them completely. I’m really excited for this because it means we’ll finally be getting rid of the junk in our lives without feeling rushed to finish up! Minimalism has so many possibilities and I can’t wait to become one

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Sounds like a great goal!

    2. Cici

      Decluterring room by room will take forever and won’t solve yout main problem. Most effective wau is Decluttering by category and decide in one shot if you want it or not. Like gather all your clothes and decide right away what needs to go and needs to be kept.

      1. Rose

        Room by room is totally doable. Decluttering by category requires that you have days to go through your stuff. That’s not practical for a lot of us with young children.

        Marie Kondo’s method is about decluttering by category. I find it to be difficult, unrealistic, and time consuming. The key thing is to store things that are related in only one place in the house, such as one closet for all shoes, one shelf for all hats. If you try to own one unit of each necessary item in the house (eg, 1 hairbrush per person, 1- 2 sets of towels, etc), you will remember what you already have.

        I’ve been living as a minimalist all my life (a closeted minimalist for many years because I’m surrounded by maximalists). It’s a lifestyle. Once you adopt that philosophy, you will stop doing silly things such as buying another (45th pair of shoes just because they’re on sale).

  2. Amanda @ centsiblyrich

    We aim for a minimalist style of living – we’re far from perfect and haven’t went all-in, but we’re at a comfortable level for us. It’s definitely saved us money – we don’t buy much of anything besides food and other necessities. It saves me time on cleaning – I don’t have knick knacks or other clutter to clean around. Plus, the lack of clutter makes the house feel more peaceful to me. At some point in the future (when the kids are out of the house), I want to downsize our home too.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Great job!

  3. Claudia @ Two Cup House

    Downsizing and selling most of our stuff has completely changed our lives. We have more time and space in our lives for the things we truly want to do. I can’t say enough about the positive impact of minimalism!

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes, for sure!

  4. Ms. Montana

    The time saving has been huge for us! We got rid of 50% of our kids toys, then put the rest in storage other than the 2 or 3 things that play with at a time. We just let them switch those out every few weeks. With 5 little kids at home, I use to spend a LOT of time picking up toys! Now literally weeks will go by with out me touching a single toy. And my house doesn’t look like an overrun daycare. =)

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Great job and great idea!

  5. Janet Shaughnessy

    My theme for 2017 is to purge all unnecessary and extraneous “stuff” from my life. I’ve started, but I’ve got a long way to go. I can’t believe the stuff I save, the amount of clothes I buy, and even some of the people whom I keep relationships with on Facebook who annoy the heck out of me. It’s all going in 2017. I’m calling it Essentialism. 🙂 Great article! You’ve motivated me to keep going.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Great goal!

  6. Kari Sayers

    This post is so timely for me because I’ve been contemplating how to declutter and live with less. It’s weird because my husband and I are currently experiencing the most financial success we’ve had in a decade but having more has caused me to look at other aspects of our life more closely. I watched the Minimalism documentary on Netflix recently and it really resonated with me. I want to try Project 333 to kick-start my efforts. Thanks for the inspiration!

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      I need to watch that documentary!

  7. Marguerite

    I am not there yet. I remember in the past envying the people moving with just a small trailer (especially remember seeing people in Asia with a trailer they pulled) Well I have a way to go and as I will probably have to move in the Spring and Summer I am working at letting go of stuff and it’s so hard. I own appliances (4) try moving lightly with that – and there is a lot of stuff -family handmade shawls, cross-stiched paintings that are priceless but take a lot of space – and I find hard to just donate – everytime I read something like this it helps me think of getting rid of stuff a little more – because I don’t want to get a larger place so I can store stuff –

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Exactly!

  8. Mrs. Picky Pincher

    I think I was afraid of minimizing because I didn’t know what life was like without the extra “stuff.” Without all of those convenient distractions I would be forced to actually see my life and gain focus. I guess that sounded like too much hard work. I still don’t follow a minimalist lifestyle, but I’ve definitely incorporated minimalist elements to my life, like having a capsule wardrobe.

    You can pick and choose which components of minimalism without living in a sterile white cube.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes, exactly!

  9. Brad, Financial Coaching

    My wife and I read the book “Seven” a few years ago and it motivated us to downsize our entire lifestyle. We sold our big beautiful (and waterfront) property to downsize into a townhouse about 1/2 the size – but that we were able to buy for cash. Along with the smaller house meant getting rid of a ton of “stuff”. And now, almost three years later, we have zero regrets. In fact, we still think it was a GREAT idea and something that everyone should consider. It seems we all have too much “stuff”.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes, many people have way too much stuff.

  10. Julie

    I want to be you when I grow up 😉 We’re about to have a major change in our life this year so minimalism is gonna happen.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Haha thanks 🙂

  11. The Local Credit Union

    I enjoy the minimalist lifestyle. As you get rid of junk you can feel your stress being alleviated. It’s crazy.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes!

  12. Stan

    About a year ago, I was approached about two different promotions that would have required me to move out of state. One was a dream job that I had had my eye on for over a decade.

    Was I excited about this? Not really.

    My big worry: How am I going to move all this stuff? I called it my “Crisis of Crap.”

    The universe decided that I wasn’t ready for this change, so I didn’t get either job, and again, I was relieved because of the huge anchor holding me down.

    My goal now? When that next opportunity comes up, to have cut my belongings down to the point where I can be boxed up and ready to go in under a week.

    Thanks for another shot of inspiration!

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes! Moving is the worst – it really makes you want to become a minimalist.

  13. Tamara @ Parenting 2 Home Kids

    I would like to adopt more of this attitude. I seem to have trouble letting go of some stuff even though cleaning a closet or even drawer feels like taking a breath. Your post inspired me. I think my new motto will be, “Would I keep this if I lived in an RV?”.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Great motto 🙂

  14. Tamara @ Parenting 2 Home Kids

    I strive to let go of more stuff. Your post is an inspiration. I think my new motto will be, “Would I keep this if I lived in an RV?”.

  15. Kylie

    I completely agree with this article. There were so many years that I bought things because they were “cheap” – like hoards of clothes from Ross, etc. Then I realized I wasn’t actually happy with the cheaper items because- they were cheap! Right now I live in a studio with a toddler. I was saying yes to all donations etc. But that was taking so much of my energy to pick them up, clean them and sift through them etc. These past 6 months I have just been focusing on everything I can get rid of! It has started to make me feel a whole lot better and more organized. I felt like my “stuff” was suffocating me alive! I was very guilty of “I’ll use that one day” – but you’re right, that day never comes, and instead I’m surrounded by things I never use or need. I am still trying to get rid of more things as well, I would rather have simple and elegant purchases, even if initially they are more expensive because I’m happier with them in the long run.

    1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

      Yes, exactly!