You Don’t Need Everything – Do You Know The Difference Between Wants And Needs?

Differentiating between wants and needs can be difficult for many people, and if you can’t tell the difference, it may hold you back and prevent you from learning how to save money. The average person has a lot of debt. They might have credit card debt, loans on furniture, a mortgage payment, a car payment,…

Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

Last Updated: May 25, 2023

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Differentiating between wants and needs can be difficult for many people, and if you can’t tell the difference, it may hold you back and prevent you from learning how to save money.

Confusing wants and needs is a behavior that holds many people back and prevents them from saving money. Knowing the difference can change your perspective!The average person has a lot of debt. They might have credit card debt, loans on furniture, a mortgage payment, a car payment, and more.

However, if you want to improve your financial situation, whether this means getting out of debt or to stop living paycheck to paycheck, you are going to have to face one major thing – distinguishing between wants and needs.

Some items are needs, but many of the things we buy are actually wants. And, confusing wants with needs may be causing you a lot of financial stress.

Remember, the only things you actually need include a place to live, a certain amount of clothing, and food and water.

What is the difference between needs or wants?

To quickly determine the difference between a want and need, think of a need being something required for survival. Needs are water for drinking, food to eat, clothing to keep you warm, and shelter to live in. These are different needs and wants examples.

On the other hand, a want is everything else. Wants are there to make life a little more enjoyable.

And, we should all be enjoying our lives.

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However, some people think cell phones, massive homes, gym memberships, cable, going out to eat, and so on are all necessary. But, they really aren’t. If you cannot afford to save money or find yourself going into debt for your wants, then you need to start cutting these items out of your budget and your life, at least until you get your financial situation and spending under control.

It is normal to want things, and it’s not a bad thing.

You may want to take a trip around the world, get the latest iPhone, and so on. Whatever you want, though, be realistic and first figure out if you can afford it. If you can’t afford it, then stop before going any further. Remember, it’s just a want!

Learning to make better choices and to differentiate between wants and needs will help you stay out of debt and reach financial freedom sooner. Learning how to control your spending will help you for years into the future, even as your income grows.

By realizing what are wants and what are needs, you’ll be able to cut some unnecessary spending and improve your financial situation.

Here is how you can lower your spending by telling the difference between wants and needs.


Be happy with what you have.

If you’re reading this blog, then you probably have a better life than many other people in this world. It’s important to realize that not everyone has access to a computer, an internet connection, or a comfy spot to read from.

So, the next time you think that you can’t survive without something, be honest with yourself about whether or not that’s actually true.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy life and have a good time.

The power of frugality means that you can still live a great life while on a budget. Money doesn’t have to dictate how much fun you have and neither do confusing wants with needs.

There are plenty of ways to live an awesome life while saving money. Yes, you can still see your friends, have fun with your loved ones, and more – all while staying on a realistic budget.


Don’t let your needs turn into wants.

One of the problems in understanding wants and needs is realizing that sometimes our needs can cause us to spend more than we should, meaning needs can turn into wants.

Here are some example of basic needs turning into wants:

  • Water- To stay hydrated, all you need is water. However, this need can turn into a want with things like bottled water, soda, coffee, etc.
  • Food- Food can come in many forms, and the healthier the better. But, going out to eat all the time turns this need into a want and can cause you to spend more than necessary.
  • Shelter- The place you decide to live doesn’t have to break your budget. You can rent a room from someone, live in an apartment, a tiny home, a mobile home, etc. But this need becomes a want with overspending and thinking you need something way above your means.
  • Clothing- Clothing needs are things such as pants, shirts, and underwear so that you can go out into society and not be naked and put in jail. You can get affordable clothing by shopping at a thrift store (such as Goodwill or Plato’s Closet) or buying items that fit within your budget. But, wants are expensive clothing and shoes, such as Louis Vuitton, $10,000 suits, etc. You don’t need these items in order to survive.


Think before you buy.

Before you buy something, you should stop and think about whether the item is a want or a need.

You should ask yourself questions such as:

  • Do I need this to survive?
  • Why do I need or want this item?
  • Do I already have something similar?

By first asking yourself these questions, you’ll waste less money and even prevent clutter from taking over your life.


Wait before you purchase.

If you are still confused about whether or not you need something, then I recommend going home and thinking about the purchase for at least a day. If it’s a really big purchase, then perhaps wait at least a week.

Doing this will allow you time to research the item and if you will actually miss not having it.

In most cases, you’ll probably forget about the item and end up not purchasing it.


Evaluate what you’re currently spending money on.

Most of the things you are currently spending money on are probably just wants. This is even true if many other people have it, think latest cell phone, new car, etc.

So, if you are trying to cut back on your budget, then you may want to get rid of some “wants” that you already have, such as:

  • Cell phones
  • Internet
  • Cable
  • Netflix
  • Gym membership
  • A car
  • Toys
  • Going out to eat

Now, some of these things, like the internet or cell phone, are much more important to those who need these things in order to work. The key here is to evaluate what you actually NEED.

Spending on wants is okay. However, it’s all about being realistic with your spending and your income. No one should go into debt for something they don’t actually need in order to survive.


What are some example of wants?

Examples of wants include things like extra clothing, travel, entertainment, deluxe cable package, and more.

Sure, they are nice to have, but you may able to cut back so that you aren’t going into debt.


What are some example of needs?

Examples of needs are more things such as your housing cost, car insurance, a basic phone plan, toiletries (such as toilet paper), health insurance, medical care, transportation costs, and more.


What is the difference between wants and needs?

When determining what are wants and needs, you will want to think about tomorrow, think about clear needs such as healthy food and toothpaste, as opposed to things such as soda.

Do you understand the difference between wants and needs? What wants and needs do you have in your life?

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  1. Crystal @ The Frugal Sisters

    I think contentment and comparisons are important factors that help you to either succeed in saving money and not confusing wants versus needs, and failing to get ahead by wasting money on things you think you need. If you are able to avoid comparing yourself to others and what they have, and find contentment in the small things and what you already have, then you will be able to succeed with your money and not fall into the trap of debt.

  2. I think your tip on waiting before making a big purchase is so important. There are so many purchases (including my house!) that I could have saved tons of money and headache on by just waiting it out and giving myself more time to think it over. It’s amazing how little we need to survive, yet how much we can waste on things we “think” we need!

    1. Yes, waiting can save a person so much money.

      1. Andreanna Hinds

        Needs is when you really want something for e. g water, food shelter, clothing ,housing.

  3. Gabriela

    One more need that, in my perspective, must be factored in is healthcare. And that takes resources, especially in the United States! In some cases, and for many people, medical care has become a luxury item unfortunately.

    1. That is so sad to think about. Healthcare should not be a luxury.

  4. Holly

    I struggle with this in regards to fixing up my house. I like to paint & fix things up, though most of the projects are cosmetic & not needs, like painting my front door. But I also try to rationalize it by thinking that all home improvements also boost the value of our house when we’ll need to sell one day, while also making my present day surroundings a lot nicer. And I love to do painting projects and I do keep on a budget, but I still feel guilty sometimes spending $ on them when I already have a roof over my head and don’t really “need” to do it and it instead could go into retirement savings.

    1. It’s all about a healthy balance 🙂

  5. Alex @ The Money Insider

    Great article! This is an issue that a LOT of people have and struggle with on a daily basis. Far too often people buy what they want and ignore things they need to do like save for an emergency, big purchases, and retirement. Definitely agree with waiting before you purchase. Impulse decisions are never a good thing and on the spot it can be difficult to determine if you really need it or just badly want it.

  6. This mindset is HUGE in helping save money.

    With any larger purchase even small it’s so important to really think and decipher if it’s a need or a want.

  7. Yes, a cell phone is a “want” for most people.

  8. Yes, minimalism all the way 🙂

  9. If you’re stuck on whether something is a want or need, try waiting a week. Putting a purchase on hold is one of the best litmus tests for whether it is truly necessary. Wait a week, if you still think you need it, then it might actually be something you should purchase.

  10. Yes, asking yourself that question can save a lot of money!

  11. Counting Quarters

    I’ll be honest. I have thousands of dollars in want items that I have purchased. But over a long period of time. In a consumer based society where every time you turn a corner you are hit in the face with an advertisement for an unnecessary product, it is hard for most people to not make at least a few impulse purchases every week.

    I have learned to prioritize those fewer select expensive purchases and completely ignore the smaller everyday wants. That is how we have prioritized the remodel of our home (which has earned us significant equity). It also shows that there is a balance between cost and quality. My computer is 7 years old but is still just as fast or faster than the brand new computer that my office purchased me. It was twice as expensive as most of the computers my friends purchased in college but they are on their 3rd cheap computer at this point.

  12. Mrs. Picky Pincher

    Sooo much yes on the point about needs becoming wants. I think too often I’m tempted to go ultra-frugal/cheap with my money-saving ideas to the point where it’s just not worth it.

    1. Ricky | Money Hero Blog

      I’ve been guilty of that too. It’s all about balance!

  13. Ricky

    Michelle, I think this is an excellent post, that many people struggle with. Differentiating between wants and needs can be tough, and the line often gets blurred. To be good with your money means to be disciplined, while still having a good balance of wants vs. needs. Great, thoughtful post!

  14. It also matters where you started out. Like we’re both from poor backgrounds so the basics is what we grew up with whereas one of my friends has parents who are Chinese billionaire/energy tycoons and she thinks its normal for a dress to cost $1,000.

  15. This is a great post I loved reading it! It’s so easy to get caught up with wanting things instead of just being happy and grateful for what we already have. Sometimes we just need to step back and think about the difference between our wants and needs and this post helps you to do that :).

  16. Be happy with what you have … that is one of the most difficult things we human beings struggle with. Always looking at others and comparing ourselves. It’s why the “Joneses” have such an influence on us, along with whatever the celebs are doing in the fashion or dieting world.

  17. One More Woman

    This post is so relatable! It can be so hard to distinguish wants from needs and these are some great tips. It’s really important to balance these things out in order to maintain a healthy economic lifestyle. Thanks for this post, you have an awesome blog! Looking forward to future posts 🙂

  18. You have made some amazing points in your post! We all have “wants” but we can’t let them control our budget! I truly believe in living within your means and saving for a rainy day! Thanks for this!

  19. Luchy Sierra

    Lovely…I am just in the middle of a situation that requires more than my and my husband brains.
    Any feedback is welcomed. I did purchase a starter kit of this oils for a diffuser. These oils can also be used as a treatment being ingested daily or rubbed into the skin. I want to try a formula I heard to help with osteoporosis. The problem was that the regular price of these items was the same amount as the starter kit. The starter kit did not provide me with what I need however it would give me a 25% discount of any purchase from then on…I can be confusing. This is confusing for me. Now I decided not to purchase anything and just get my money back. This is going to cause me time, talk and follow up consistently. I should not have purchase this to begin with. I was having a prefer from a flu and I feel I was not in my right senses. I dont know but I made a mistake. Maybe these oils are not a need. They are a want. Right?

  20. Jager

    i just have a question about your statement that we should cut out all the wants, but are those dogs you have a NEED.

    >this is about you article
    You Don’t Need Everything – Do You Know The Difference Between Wants And Needs?

    1. Where do I say that all wants should be cut?

  21. susan

    I think things like the internet and cable and electronics and cars are all wants because the because we were all entertained before that, we all had a way of transportation before that, we just found better and easier ways that, even though it has its costs.

    1. ENSJ

      Internet can definitely be necessary for certain jobs. So depending on your location and profession that can be classified as a need instead of a want.

      I do agree with the others. My electronics consist of a phone, a coffee maker (there’s also an oven and microwave but I did not buy them, they were already here when I moved in), computer (which I use for my job) and a radio.

  22. Kayden Smith

    This may just be my point of view, but in this day and age the line between want’s and needs isn’t that black and white, as while physically those may indeed be our needs, but there’s also the psychological needs that can be present. For example, like how many people have copious amounts of stress and need some things to help relieve that, may it be books, games, social media interactions, music, to some people those are actual and legitimate needs. So while it’s not the case for everyone, just want to put out there it’s better to have a more open mindset in such matters

  23. ENSJ

    I have created a wishlist. Yes most of the things on there are wants instead of needs. But I don’t update the wishlist (save for throwing things off I have thought about and don’t want anymore) and only buy from the wishlist.

    If I happen across something and my first reaction is that I want it I check my wishlist. Not on it? Then I don’t buy it. (The wishlist includes clothes for when current clothes become unwearable and such).

    Ialso live more minimalist, in that I pared down my belongings and if I have to check the amount of things on the list that would replace something I already have (depending on the state I either donate or sell or throw it away after acquiring something of the list) it’s more than three quarters of the list.

    But that is how I try to curb spending and save more.

  24. Clever Outlay

    Absolutely love this post! It’s crazy how easily we can blur the lines between wants and needs in our spending habits.
    The examples provided, like turning basic needs into wants, really hit home. It’s essential to be mindful of our purchases and ask those critical questions before hitting the checkout. Waiting before making a purchase is a game-changer. It gives you time to assess if it’s truly a need or just a fleeting want.
    The emphasis on being happy with what you have and not letting needs turn into wants is a powerful mindset shift.
    Thanks for the valuable insights!