Hi everyone. I hope you all had a great weekend. It was a pretty slow weekend for me. Just cleaning up around the house and trying to relax.
I wanted to give all of you an update on my Reconnecting with Family post that I made back in January. I CALLED MY AUNT ON SATURDAY! I’ve been debating about this forever and would call and then hang up just because I was nervous. She told me that she’s been doing the same and that she was really glad that I called.
We played phone tag a couple more times after the first time I called because she couldn’t talk for much the first time. But on Sunday we talked for nearly an hour. It was great. It was nice talking to her. We didn’t really talk about my dad at all. She would chime in every now and then and would say that he would be proud of me, but then every couple of minutes she would say that she wished she could talk about my dad but that she didn’t want to turn it into a depressing phone call. I’m still not really ready to talk about him without getting upset, so I am fine with that. Anyway, it was nice talking to her and I’m glad that I finally called.
I did ask about my grandfather and was about to ask for his phone number so that I could call him, but she said he had passed away. They weren’t close so she didn’t say much about it, and I didn’t really want to ask. I wish I would have reconnected earlier of course, and will just have to live with this regret. I spent every summer with my grandfather when I was younger, and we visited all the time, so I am sad… I wish I could say more, but it’s hard to type this so I’m just going to completely switch the subject.
So, I recalculated everything with my student loans and expected payoff, and I decided to wait until May (next month) to pay off my student loans. I really don’t want to empty everything out of our emergency fund just to pay off my student loans early, so I decided to wait until next month. I know, I know, PF FAIL especially since it seems like we have been spending a crazy amount on everything. Oh well oh well I failed you all 😛
Spending
We didn’t really do too much shopping this past week. We did go to Lowes and buy some things for the house (spent $300 on plants and a fire pit, AH!) but luckily we have a gift card that covered all of it and still have a lot more left on the gift card thankfully!. There are still a lot of other things for the house that we need to buy, and we will get to all of that eventually.
Extra Income (does not include income from our main jobs)
Extra income went back up last week and it was a good week. I’m still working on increasing affiliate income, and I’m currently try to think of new ways to increase it. I’m also looking to diversify my income even more. What to you do to diversify? What about passive income? I want to get more into passive income. HELP!
Also, Lance is looking for a potential staff writer for his blog. I know that a ton of you are always seeing if I know of any opportunities, so here you go. Email him!
Posts from my blog:
- A Tornado and $888 Extra Income
- Financial Goals and Increase Income – Many Changes
- Side Hustle: Freelance Writer and SEO Specialist
- My Dad was Awesome – Thanks everyone from all of your awesome comments on this post.
- Easy Ways to Keep Your Pet Secure
Link Love
- Could you financially survive if you lost your job? Eyes on the Dollar. This is something that EVERYONE should think about. If you lost your job, would your life be ruined? Would you have enough to pay your bills? We work hard so that we can live on less than one income, and because of that I feel very comfortable with money and how we live.
- Making Bacon at Home: Editor Our Freaking Budget. LOVE LOVE LOVE this post. I love it because it makes me think about what I might do in the future…
- Embarrassing the Boy at the Grocery Store Tales From the Trenches. This is my life also, hahaha!
- The Art of the Hustle – Why Making Sense of Cents Income posts are so addictive Shop My Closet Project. Of course this post would be in my link love. Tip – if you want me to love you, make awesome posts about side hustles and what you’re doing to be more awesome with your money!
Food – Clean Eating!
We are doing AWESOME with our food spending this past week. We hardly ate out (I honestly can’t think of anything major), and we made really good meals every night. I started following a lot of “healthy eating” and “clean eating” people on Instagram and have been using their recipes for our meals every night. One of my favorite healthy Instagramers is FITalacious. She makes super cheap meals that actually taste pretty good. Have you ever heard of her? Who do you love on Instagram?
Our menu plan for next week includes a lot of grilled salmon, grilled chicken, brown rice, vegetables, peppers and so on. Usually we eat pretty unhealthy every night. Everything would be doused in dressing, cheese, sugar, butter or something else. Surprisingly, we have been eating everything more “clean,” which means that we’re not really adding anything to our food besides lemon. We’re both really working on eating more healthy and “clean” foods. We’ve also been enjoying the food more this way, I guess that’s just what happens when you eat extremely unhealthy for so long – you just start craving more healthy food! What’s on your meal plan? Share any links, recipes, pictures and so on in the comments below.
Being healthy
I’m doing AWESOME with this. Look above 🙂 I’ve also been doing a lot better with running. Haven’t used the treadmill too much lately. I feel bad running inside the house because my dog just sits at the end of the treadmill and makes me feel guilty for not running with her… So instead I’ve just been running outside with her.
Marissa says
I'm really happy to hear about you reconnecting with your aunt! Family is very important!
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Michelle says
Thank you! I'm glad I called her also 🙂
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Katie says
Thanks for the heads about Lance. Will be emailing him soon!
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Michelle says
Welcome Katie!
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myfijourney says
I try to eat healthy as much as possible. It's cheaper than heading out to restaurants. But it's way more expensive than buying processed junk at the supermarket. Why do fruits and vegetables cost so bloody much?
Michelle says
Do you have an ALDI near you? The prices for fruits and vegetables there are SO much cheaper than a normal grocery store.
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Lance@MoneyLife&More says
Thanks for mentioning my staff writer search Michelle 🙂
Michelle says
Welcome Lance! I hope you find someone awesome.
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John S @ Frugal Rules says
Lol! I would have to agree with Glen, you're already killing it! 😉
Michelle says
Haha thanks John!
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Michelle says
Haha thanks! I want something passive as well though. I just don't know what?!
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DC@Young Adult Money says
So glad to hear about your Aunt! I hope you are able to continue to reconnect and build those relationships. I need to continue to focus on extra income, and have some big plans for my site, though a lack of time is always getting in the way 😉 Not using it as an excuse, I already spend almost all my free time on side income-related activities!
MakingSenseofCents says
I need more time as well! What plans do you have for your site? Please share 🙂
Holly@ClubThrifty says
Sounds like you have been doing awesome, Michelle! I'm happy for you that you are reconnecting with family!
MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks Holly!
Girl Meets Debt says
That's awesome that you made the first move and reconnected with your dad's family! Congrats on another great week with your side income Michelle 🙂
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Budget & the Beach says
Glad you reconnected with your aunt and you're enjoying your clean eating!
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debtroundup says
Glad to hear that you reconnected. I am sure that was difficult. You are rocking it again on the extra income. Keep it up!
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MakingSenseofCents says
It was very difficult, but I'm glad I finally talked to her.
Michelle says
Thanks for the shout out! Your hustle posts have re-energized and refocused me in a way that was unexpected. I can't wait to get started "hustling" in June when I get back from my trips.
MakingSenseofCents says
Welcome Michelle!
therandompath says
Glad to hear that you reconnected with your aunt, Michelle! Good for you 🙂
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wmwo says
Thanks for the link love 🙂 I'm so glad you had a chance to reconnect with your aunt!
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writing2reality says
K-K-K-Killing it Michelle! Another awesome week! There are tons of ways to look for passive income, and most through various forms of investment. I personally am a fan of peer-to-peer lending, real estate, and dividend growth investing as three options.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I'm thinking about looking into peer to peer lending, I'm just scared to start!
MakingSenseofCents says
Haha same here 🙂
MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks Cat. It was very hard, and I spent most of my weekend in a complete mess of emotions. Thank you so much 🙂
MakingSenseofCents says
Thank you Jake.
Kim@Eyesonthedollar says
Congrats on the extra income and reconnecting with your aunt. That must be really hard, but sounds like it was a good thing. Thanks so much for including me this week.
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MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks Kim! And yes it was wooooooonderful talking to her 🙂
Pauline @ Reach Financial Independence says
Sorry about your grandfather, try not to live with regrets, I know it is easier said than done but it will only weight on you and there is nothing you can change. Now you reconnected with your aunt so you can make up for the past years and enjoy that relationship!
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MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks Pauline. 🙂
Jenny@FrugalGuru says
We spent way more than you this week! We're doing substantial remodeling, so my Lowe's costs are up to $400. Plus, I have a baby coming in the next few weeks, so I had to actually get baby supplies–diapers and wipes ($15), a car seat ($100), and clothes ($130). We've got everything else, thankfully.
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MakingSenseofCents says
We need to do a lot more remodeling as well, booo!
MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks Anna. And yes there were divorced. They were VERY different people.
@ayoungpro says
You are still rocking it, awesome! I haven't been doing as well on my healthy eating lately, but I think it is time to get back on the horse!
MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks!
Michelle says
Thanks Justin! I am definitely working hard on my extra income 🙂
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Canadianbudgetbinder says
Good for you sounds like you are well on track to reaching all your life's goals! Eating healthy and saving money from not eating is a great achievement. Well done.
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Michelle says
Thanks! I want to say that you are a big inspiration! I love all the recipes that are posted on your blog and on your Facebook 🙂
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debtandthegirl says
I am glad you were able to talk to your aunt. That must have been something. Looks like you are still killing it on the ad income. Good show!
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Michelle says
Thanks!
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My Shiny Pennies says
It was touching to read about your reconnecting with family members. I think it takes guts to take that step and to share it as well.
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studentdebtsurvivor says
Reconnecting with family can be really hard. Glad to hear that you put yourself "out there". Clean eating sounds so interesting. I'd be interested in giving it a try to health's sake.
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