In my post last week I talked about how I’m oh so happy that school is done forever. However, even though there are so many reasons for why I am happy and things I looked forward to when graduating, there are also many things that new graduates are not told about.
Since I have lived on my own since I was 18, and I’ve had to pay for all of my own things (I rented a house at 18 and have worked full-time since 16), I pretty much know all about bills and how much money I will make. There are no surprises and I am very used to income and expenses.
Not to make this a depressing post or anything, but there are soooo many things out there that are not talked about enough. College graduates are always told about all of the positives of graduating, and possibly no negatives (or very little).
Negatives need to be talked about and realized. Some of my friends who graduated from college just assumed that they would be rolling around in cash and that money would be no problem.
1. You might not find a job right away.
Luckily I had a full-time job during college, so I wasn’t as worried about money, but of course I still wanted to find something in my field. Some people told me that I wouldn’t find a job right away, and others told me that it would be a piece of cake. Luckily I was able to find several jobs that interested me.
However, I have a lot of friends who either didn’t try hard enough to find a job or they were overly optimistic. Some friends thought that jobs would just land right in their laps and hardly ever applied for a job, or they thought that they didn’t have to try as hard since they had a college degree. BOY were they wrong! You still need to try and put a lot of effort into your applications.
2. Bills will add up quickly.
If you’ve never really had a lot of bills before (or any at all), then all of your new bills might throw you off completely. There’s an apartment or house to think about, possible car payments, car insurance, health insurance, food, electricity and everything else.
If you buy a house, then there are many others things to think about. Where and how will you choose your house? What about maintenance costs? These things all add up quickly.
You need to think about how quickly everything will add up, and also think about #3 in the section below.
3. Your paycheck isn’t as big as you think it’ll be.
Think you should just take your salary and divide it by 12, and that’s what you have to spend each month? NO! Depending on how your paid, if you just divide it by 12, then some months you will be extremely short.
For example, if your pay is $40,000 (lets forget about taxes for just one second) and you divide it by 12 months exactly, then you will have around $3,333 per month. However, what if you’re paid every 2 weeks and not twice a month? This would leave you with a little less than $3,100 a month. This is a difference of over $200 per month between what you think you’ll have any how much you actually have.
Also, of course taxes and everything else need to be taken into account. Taxes can vary but most new graduates who haven’t had a full-time job before will most likely be extremely shocked by how much is taken out due to taxes.
Before you start buying stuff like crazy, you should get a realistic feel of what your first couple of paychecks will be like. Waiting until you actually receive them might be the best idea before you start buying things.
Other things you might not have thought about enough:
- You might not even like the field that you went to school for.
- You might find a job that you love that you never thought you’d enter.
- Your student loans will be a lot more each month than you really think.
What do you wish you knew when you graduated?
ND Chic says
Well said! I don't think most people realize how much of their money goes to taxes. They are also hit with student loan payback. That can be jarring, too.
MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! So much money goes to taxes.
Allison says
I remember being shocked when I got out of college by the real world. I expected when I got my degree that people would be knocking down more door for jobs and that I would be killing it on the income side. That never happened.
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I wish that I would have been more aware of how much money it takes to live and how big of a burden debt could be. I graduated with a degree that didn't have very good job prospects. Not only were there few paying jobs, but the jobs that did pay didn't pay much. I wish that I would have thought of that – or cared about it – before I spent thousands of dollars and 4.5 years of my life on my degree.
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MakingSenseofCents says
What's your degree?
[email protected] Adult Money says
Great tips for people who are still in school. I think some concentrations should be more blunt about the job prospects – i.e. political science, where most people really should be on track for a phd or law school, otherwise there aren't a ton of possibilities for grads.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree. My friend is a psychology major and she always thought that she could get a good job with that, until recently.
[email protected] says
It is rough out there!~ I think a lot of people go to school and don't end up liking the field that they got their degree in.
It happened to Greg…and he had to go back to school for a second time. It was worth it because now he is doing something that works better for him.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! You should be doing something that you like more.
moneybeagle says
One of the things that I learned the really hard way is that your good work will often not translate into pay. My first job was entry level but I quickly rose to a leadership role, above people who had been in the workforce for 5-10 years. Going into my first evaluation, I expected them to lavish me with bonuses and double digit raises. This didn't happen and I learned later: that's reality. I pretty much learned then that your reward is usually switching jobs/companies, that's often the only way you'll get a double digit increase for performance.
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MakingSenseofCents says
Yes I definitely had to learn this the hard way as well.
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christineslittleblog says
There are days when I really regret getting the degree I did in college. Everyone says Healthcare is the best field to be in but clinical degrees (such as nursing, athletic training, etc.) are such niche degrees that if you ever want to leave that field, it's hard to convince people you are capable of performing other job tasks.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I am right there with you.
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jefferson @SDR says
Graduating college was for me, all about instantly growing up. I was lucky to find a job right away, but the job had demanding hours and suddenly I had responsibilities… I loved it, but it was a major time of change.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! It was definitely a change.
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Leslie says
This stuff always confuses me. I'm with you that I've been living on my own since I was 17 so I can't fathom never paying rent until after college! What! Twenty-one year olds don't know they need to pay electricity bills!? What college tells you that you don't need to apply to jobs they'll come to you?! Does this stuff really happen or we being extreme here? Serious question because if this is real, I don't know how to process it and don't want to live in this world.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I know a lot of people who think this. They think that if you go to college, then you have the easy life with jobs and everything else afterwards. And I think a lot of people think that their parents will help them out with bills, or that they will always have mommy and daddy to fall back on.
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Rachel says
I agree with all of these things! It took me 5 months to find a job after applying to about 70 of them. I don't make great money, either and with student loans totaling over $700 a month, it's a little hard. It makes me wish that I had chosen a cheaper college or maybe even a different major of study!
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! Sometimes I wish I wouldn't have attended a private university.
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SavvyFinancialLatina says
The biggest shock is always how much I actually take home in pay. About 40-50% of my pay goes to taxes, healthcare, fsa, retirement contributions, espp. It's astonishing :/
Bills do add up quickly! Beh even though we are earning money and saving a lot, I still struggle with paying bills and timing our choices. I make myself believe we're broke most of the time so I can put away more.
MakingSenseofCents says
Ugh I know! So much of it is gone by time the money is deposited.
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apenny4athought says
Great Tips! I agree with all of them! I was surprised at how little I could stretch my paycheque…..
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MakingSenseofCents says
This is something that most don't realize.
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Lance @ Money Life and More says
I think a lot of people will wish they knew to save more of their paycheck for retirement or other future goals. The easiest time to save is when you are not used to the income.
MakingSenseofCents says
You are right!
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Neely says
This is SO TRUE!!!
Bobbi Jo says
I wanted to thank you for stopping by my blog.
Great post! I was just reading some of this information in The Millionaire Next Store. We are currently working on getting out of debt using the Dave Ramsey program. We were out of debt 10 yrs ago then we got stupid with our money. Now we are back on track but it is a long road.
Enjoy your blog and all the great information. Hugs, Bobbi Jo
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MakingSenseofCents says
Thanks 🙂
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Budget & the Beach says
I wish I knew more about personal finance! I wish someone literally sat me down and said if you start right freakin now you will be doing so well later on. But no one did and I was young and stupid. And although I never had student loans or massive credit card debt, I wasn't as savvy as I could have been because I was just having fun. But looking back…I did have a lot of fun! 🙂
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! I wish I was forced to take a class.
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MakingSenseofCents says
Ugh yeah that makes me sick also.
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MakingSenseofCents says
Yes this is something that definitely needs to be realized.
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MakingSenseofCents says
I agree! I did not apply for enough scholarships.
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therandompath says
"You won't find a job right away" :Truth. I totally didn't. It was so frustrating. There were times where it was like, ummmm why did I go to college if I can't find a job? It took about 6 months until I did get a job. All I can say to new graduates is be patient. Everything will work out.
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Hannah says
These are all spot on! Honestly when I first heard my starting salary I was jumping for joy… now I am like…seriously? Once all the tiny little bills add up and taxes are taken out it doesn't seem like much at all. Gotta budget!
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LenaAtOnMySide says
I wish we knew that after 6 months of looking Hubby wouldn't be able to find a better job. On the other hand, we at least didn't have student loans to pay. It scares me to think how we would scramble right now if we had another $500 bill every month!
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Meg says
what do i wish i knew? that being an adult is not very easy that sometimes i would like to hang out with friends but no one will go buy paper towels and lightbulbs for me if i don't. you are right you might not find a job right away, and my second thing is don't expect people to owe you a job or anything else even after that degree, getting the degree is just the beginning of when the hard and real work actually begins
Veronica Hill says
One thing that I wish I knew before getting out of college is – your degree might be worthless. I regret for not getting an accounting or finance degree vs this business degree I have now. It taught me nothing. Heck, looking back… I wish I'd invest all of that school loan money into a crash course on ROR programming in San Francisco. (I suppose I can still do that)
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Lovebird Productions says
Such a fabulous and honest post! There are a lot of lessons that school can never prepare you for until you are faced with them. Sometimes the perfect job doesn't come along until you fifth try or you create it. Keep a positive mindset!
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mycanuckbuck says
I'm pretty lucky – I graduated with a good job and salary waiting. For me, it was just the shock of having a full time job, and learning when to say yes (and say no) that were the hardest things to adjust to!
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Sarah_Helfgott says
It's important to think about these things. I make pretty decent money but I still feel like I'm broke all the time. You pretty much nailed all the reasons why!
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MoneyMasterMom says
No one told me that being an apprentice for a trade, rather then a college grad may result in a better paycheck. I'll be the first to say that money isn't everything, but you're fooling yourself if you say it doesn't count at all!
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Elease says
what useful and valuable information! Thanks for sharing! xoxo
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I wish I'd made more of an effort to control lifestyle inflation and pay off loans before buying "stuff". Overall, I landed a good job and have few regrets other than that.
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savvyscot.com says
Good post… I would add that your paycheck will be even smaller than you might expect if you relocate somewhere expensive. Moving from Scotland to London was a massive increase in costs. Although I got a starting salary higher than almost all my fellow engineering cohort, I probably have less disposable income because of London prices! It is ridiculous… Good job I have a side hustle 😉
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holly says
I was overly optimistic that I would immediately find a job after school. I graduated with a Master's Degree right at the downturn of the economy and it took me 7 months to find the right job. Then again, I didn;t settle but it was tough for awhile!
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Luckily, like you, I had a job all through college, but I was still surprised at how much the payments were! I have friends who earned degrees in liberal arts and such, and are unable to make their payments today. What I really think is interesting are the amount of people that go to grad school and pay $100k+, not fully understanding what they want to go into, and/or with unrealistic salary expectations afterwards.
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eemusings says
I don't think I had any big surprises. I moved out of home in high school, worked all through uni, and was fortunate to go straight into a full time job.
It's the little things, I think, the nuances of the working world that creep up on you (my thoughts on this here: http://nzmuse.com/2012/05/18/friday-five-things-y…
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Canadianbudgetbinder says
I believe there are alot of misconceptions about what happens after you graduate especially when it comes to money and finding a job. Depending on what field you are in you could struggle finding a job. I'm fortunate that my career is well in demand so I wouldn't struggle but some of my mates are still looking for work that I met while in school. I just encourage them to never give up, get out and network. The pay can suck when you first start but that's something I understood that with time and experience you will earn more. I think that's just the way it goes. If there is one thing I learned is that learning from a book is one thing but hands on using what you learned is a whole other ball game and where all my experience and learning really comes from. Great post. Cheers Mr.CBB
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MoneySmartGuides says
I was in the group that when I graduated I thought all of my problems were over. I would find a job paying be $100,000 per year and would have no other worries…and I was completely wrong! I had a hard time finding a job and got depressed, then started spending money I didn't have. Luckily I got out of that spiral and am doing well now.
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Brick By Brick says
When I graduated I felt like I got a visit from the mob… Seriously! I went out (was lucky enough) to get a job then was told I was going to hand over about 25% of my paycheck every month. Call me naive but I didn't think taxes were that much. Add a 5% State tax in there plus ghost fees and taxes on utilities, cell phone, etc and I was left with about 2/3rds of my paycheck!
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Terry Sprouse says
I think it would have been nice to know that social science majors are generally not really very marketable, except perhaps as teachers. But, even if I had known this, I'm not sure that I would have changed my major.
In almost any field of study, I think it's valuable to think about starting a business on the side to make sure you have a steady income.
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Michaela says
Eek! Can't wait to graduate, but nervous at the same time for these very reasons! 🙂
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Jason Clayton says
#3 is so, so, TRUE!! When I graduated with my engineering degree I thought I was a millionaire with my first job. Don't get me wrong, I was paid well, but it is never as much as you think. The money is gone super quick!
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Katie Foster says
I am a recent college graduate and I just stumbled across your blog and have been looking around at all your different posts for a while now. Very interesting and informative blog. Thank you for sharing all these very real and personal subjects pertaining to debt and school.
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